I feel like when someone new and better comes along, you’d leave me in a heartbeat. Some times I just need reassurance every once in a while.

Are you kidding me? You’re telling me that I never cared? I always put myself out there for you. I dropped everything for you. I did everything I could for you, when you didn’t ask. Why? because I did care about. and you’re telling me I never did? Are you serious? Then tell me why I would do all that stuff? The only person who never cared was you. Get your facts straight.

• The bullshitted “Sorry” 

The person might be aware that they’re wrong, but they aren’t sure why. They’ll apologize, just to get you off their back. The problem goes away for the time being, don’t be surprised when the issue comes up again. ‘Cause nothing’s changed.

• The sugar-coated “Sorry” 

The person doesn’t necessarily say sorry, but they try to work around the situation and try to drop/forget it ever happened by being sweet. Trying to constantly change the subject and getting the other person to forget what’s going on by distracting them with sweet-talk. 

• An actual Apology

The person realizes what they did wrong, they’ll not only apologize, but also own up to their responsibilities. They will know the difference between what’s right and what’s wrong. They’ll know exactly what went wrong, and find a way to fix the problem.

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It’s a lot harder to get in touch with that side of my emotions now. Maybe it’s because of all of the shit I’ve been through, I don’t know. I just know that I’m not the same person I was before. I’m colder. It’ll probably take a lot more than it used, for me to warm up to someone again. And even more to put my heart back in the right place. 

They come back several days, months, or years after to tell you how much they’ve missed you, and claim that you were the one who pushed them away, expecting you to be there for them still. It doesn’t work that way, once you push me out of your life, I’ll stay out of your life for good.

I wake up, and it’s you in my head. I go to sleep and the last thought is you. Hell, when I’m doing the most random things, the image of you just unconsciously slides into my thoughts.

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What does being someone’s friend mean? Just because you guys don’t talk on a daily basis doesn’t mean you’re not friends anymore. I mean sure, it would be great if you guys did talk. But despite the distance and the lack of communication, that doesn’t automatically state that the other person doesn’t care anymore. That’s just the way most friendship goes. Don’t assume just from the little bits and pieces, It’s a mutual understanding.

I don’t know how you do it. I’m not perfect, I always make mistakes. I get moody, I yell, and I act like I don’t care sometimes. I don’t know what’s making you want to stay, but I’m thankful you did. I know it’s not easy putting up with me and I’m trying hard to be a better person for you.

People don’t get to restart. They’re left with the pain of what happened. So before cheating, playing, just hurting someone, actually think. People have hearts, people do cry, people do hurt. And being a player, a douche, or whatever… It doesn’t make you look cool.